Are you struggling with relationship issues where you’re pulling in opposite directions, and there seems no path forwards?
Learn fundamental tools and gain powerful insights that can bring back the love and connection you are yearning for.
And yes, you can really do that on your own – find out how!
How we can help YOU!
Hi, We’re Debra and Gordon Dickson,
We are a husband-and-wife team with over 30 years of experience helping couples and individuals navigate emotional and relationship challenges. For nearly as long, we’ve been teaching our Counselling Kinesiology Training to practitioners across Australia.
Changing relationship patterns can be tough, especially with two unique sets of dreams, needs, and frustrations. Face-to-face couple work isn’t always feasible, and often one partner is unwilling to participate.
This is the same approach we’ve used with countless individuals to help them reclaim love and connection in their relationships. We want the same for you.
Frustrated seeking help? The problems we uncovered:
When asking people about the challenges they had encountered when seeking help for their relationship issues, we uncovered the following problems –
They had experienced the power of Counselling & Talk Therapies but felt frustrated that it couldn’t go deeper than what was remembered or just talked about.
Behaviour Change Exercises were often very effective but hard to maintain, as they didn’t touch the underlying issues.
Kinesiology based Regression Work often produced great shifts and insights, but these dissipated when put to the test in the trials of daily life.
Without their partner’s particiation, things just didn’t change in the relationship.
An integration of all of these approaches was certainly needed, and some way of influencing a reluctant or disinterested partner.
How Do I Fix My Relationship? → The Counselling Kinesiology™ Solution!
We created Counselling Kinesiology™ as a powerful integration of Talk Therapy, Regression Work and Behaviour Change Exercises.
With the “How Do I Fix My Relationship?” program, we have tailored the Counselling Kinesiology™ integration into an online course that you can do on your own, with our support.
The kinesiology or muscle testing component is completely optional. However, it’s very helpful to find hidden blocks that are holding you back and sabotaging your relationship. We can recommend kinesiology practitioners to assist you, but we also provide alternative ways you can uncover and heal these blocks yourself.
You can’t make your partner change, but with the right tools, you can certainly influence them in mutually beneficial ways.
In this program, we have packaged these tools for you in explanatory videos with practical demonstrations. You will be directly involved in the practical exercises and apply them to your own specific situation.
We will help you to move through all of the areas that make up a healthy, happy, loving relationship.
You will learn a great deal about your partner and yourself, and use this knowledge to make empowering shifts in how you think, feel and act, with transformative changes occurring in your relationship.
Everyone deserves the opportunity to fix their relationship and this is your pathway to achieving it.
Fortunately, We Have Done the Hard Work for You
From the 1000’s of hours of research into relationship issues, trialling the techniques, and getting feedback from our students and CK™ clients over many years, we can present you with this tightly integrated online course, packed with practical techniques that you can implement straight away, and learn in the comfort of your own home.
This is Unique Training That You Will Not Get Anywhere Else
With the powerful Counselling Kinesiology™ integration, the proprietary emotional states charts, the individualised practical exercises to implement, the online approach that you can do on your own with our support, and so much more, you will have a truly unique program that you will not get anywhere else.
Introducing the ‘How Do I Fix My Relationship?’ Online Training Program,
to Create the Relationship Transformation You’ve Been Looking For
You Get a Multi-Tiered Approach to Support Real Change
DIY Talk Therapy
Probing questions in your ‘Personal Relationship Journal’ to help you clarify your thoughts and feelings, and record them. You update them throughout the program to monitor your progress.
Transformational Exercises
Engaging exercises for you to use to improve communication, resolve conflict, enhance connection, and support yourself in making relationship changes that stick.
Resolving Hidden Blocks
Muscle testing and other techniques to identify what is holding you back. Gentle regression to help you resolve the blocks and heal past hurts.
A Community of Support
You don’t have to do this on your own. We’re here to help. We encourage you to contribute to the closed facebook group, attend the Q&As, ask questions and reach out for help.
The Program Includes:
Videos
- Instructional videos
- Demonstrations
- Guided Practice
Written Guides
- Step by Step Guides
- Fill in Exercises
- Checklists & Quizzes
Diagrams
- Charts
- Visual Guides
- Explanatory Diagrams
Support
- Closed Facebook Group
- Q&As
- Emails & Check-ins
Your Eight Practical Modules:
Module 1: Taking Self Responsibility (4 units)
You will learn:
- To use the power of self-change to change your relationship
- How to harness the true power of your emotions
- How to be kinder to yourself
- How to influence your partner in win-win ways
You will receive:
- ‘Stages of Change’ chart – to assist you to make changes
- ‘Emotional States’ charts – to find out where you are and where you need to go
- ‘Self Calming and Self Regulation’ exercises
- ‘Pathways to Well-Being’ chart – to plot your path forwards
And for each unit, you will have the:
- Personal Relationship Journal and Tracker – to record your journey and track your progress
- Main takeaways summary
- References and further reading
- Implementation action plan
Module 2: Creating a Relationship Vision and Building on Strengths (2 units)
You will learn:
- How to build a compelling Relationship Vision based on your past peak experiences
- How to capitalise on your own strengths and leverage your partner’s
- How to apply strengths as your Relationship Vision powerhouse
You will receive:
- ‘Needs Analysis’ chart – for identifying needs both inside and outside your relationship
- ‘Strengths Assessment’ questionnaire and charts
- ‘Visual Implementation Board’ – for implementing and supporting daily wins
Module 3: Recognising Past Influences (3 units)
You will learn:
- Why you and your partner chose each other, how it’s gone wrong and just what to repair
- What forgiveness does and doesn’t mean and how to do it well
- How you can make and receive successful bids for emotional connection
You will receive:
- ‘Family of Origin’ and ‘Past Relationship’ charts – to fill in and help identify influences
- ‘Relationship Matrix’ grid – to fill in with instructions on how to change it
- ‘Gratitude and Forgiveness’ exercises to practice
Module 4: Improving Communication Skills (4 units)
You will learn:
- How to get your message across without inflaming your partner
- How to stop unproductive arguments
- How to problem solve together
- How to rebuild trust after an affair / infidelity / rupture of trust
You will receive:
- ‘Three Part I Message’ exercise – for expressing your feelings more productively and initiating change
- ‘Supportive Responding’ flowchart – to enhance your effective and compassionate listening skills
- ‘Debriefing Your Day’ exercise – for increasing understanding and connection
Module 5: Managing Disagreement (3 units)
You will learn:
- How to do constructive disagreement, and find a compromise without feeling compromised
- How to manage your and your partner’s differences
- How to identify the dreams within conflict and overcome seemingly irreconcilable incompatibilities
You will receive:
- ‘Yin / Yang Differences’ chart – to identify your underlying differences causing conflict
- ‘Constructive Disagreement’ flowchart
Module 6: Overcoming Hidden Blocks (3 units)
You will learn:
- How to identify the hidden blocks sabotaging your relationship
- How to heal your Younger Self’s hurts
- How your Younger Self can help you now to change negative patterns in your relationship
You will receive:
- ‘Clearing the Subconscious Blocks’ exercise
- ‘Younger Self Recovery’ exercise
- ‘How to Utilize your Younger Self in Day-to-Day Life’ exercise
Module 7: Building Romance Intimacy and Fun (3 units)
You will learn:
- How to create the fun, intimacy and sex you want and need
- How to manage bids for intimate connection
- How to spice up your Relationship Vision
You will receive:
- ‘Planned Spontaneity’ exercise
- ‘Resolving Sex and Intimacy Problems’ exercise
Module 8: Maintaining the Changes (2 units)
You will learn:
- How to prepare for the unknown future
- How to stay on the path and recover from lapses
You will receive:
- ‘Embracing the Adult Development Phases’ exercise
- ‘Creating Shared Meaning’ exercise
Additional Module: Counselling Kinesiology™ Extra Techniques (optional)
You will experience:
- How to use self-testing and the limitations
- How to use your existing muscle testing skills to identify emotional blocks
- How to test up ’emotional states’ charts
- How to de-stress emotional hurts
- How to improve concentration and focus
- How to get help from a kinesiology practitioner
You will receive:
- Instructions on 4 types of Self-testing
- CK™ Kinesiology techniques for focus and concentration
- CK™ Kinesiology techniques for de-stressing worrying thoughts and feelings
- ‘CK™ Emotional Stress Regression’ instructions
TESTIMONIALS – What People are Saying About our Courses
“I definitely recommend CK. It will also give you invaluable insights and skills that you can then use for the rest of your life.”
Edit – Melbourne
“”It is by far the most well-researched and detailed set of training materials I have ever seen – amazing quality.
Belinda – Melbourne
“I particularly liked the Inner Child process and the way in which you were able to access a deeper feeling state with the gentleness of the work”.
Robbi – Ballarat
“I can’t express in words the degree to which this course turned out to be over and beyond all my expectations.”
Jenny – Humpty Doo
“The techniques and tools used in CK are very beneficial and provide practical long-term solutions. Gordon’s extensive knowledge and clinical experience were evident throughout.”
Hasna – Sydney
“I really loved how it combined kinesiology with mainstream counselling. It is a great system and a great course.”
Amanda – Eumundi
“You couldn’t ask for a more passionate teacher than Gordon. It was very well presented and easy to navigate your way around. I thoroughly recommend this course.”
Kerrilee – Toowoomba
“This course has given me so much, personally. I feel that it has allowed me to really tap into those emotions and beliefs on a deeper level to allow for long-lasting changes to occur. I would definitely recommend it. Thank you Gordon & Deb.”
Debbie – Melbourne
“Gordon and Deb are full of inspiration. The course was informative, interesting, fun and provided some amazing results.
Denise – Melbourne
OUR RISK FREE 100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
If you are not completely happy with this online program, or feel for any reason it is not for you at this time, you can receive a full 100% refund of your payment for this course. We want you to be as happy with the program as we are, so there is no risk in starting now.
Simply ring us and let us know, and we will orgnaise a refund.
Join Us
Stop struggling to fix your relationship on your own – join with us in YOUR journey.
Get an 8 module program with community support to get the relationship transformation you are seeking
Videos
- Instructional videos
- Demonstrations
- Guided Practice
Written Guides
- Step by Step Guides
- Fill in Exercises
- Checklists & Quizzes
Diagrams
- Charts
- Visual Guides
- Explanatory Diagrams
Support
- Closed Facebook Group
- Q&As
- Emails & Checkins
AUD $149 including GST for the full program
Bonuses
You will receive:
- TROUBLE-SHOOTING INVENTORY – ‘What to do if I have problems with….?’ (Where to find help for your particular issues in the program)
- GLOSSARY OF TERMS USED – what they mean and where to find more about them in the program
- WRITTEN TRANSCRIPTS OF ALL OF THE VIDEOS – easily find what you are looking for, No endlessly rewinding to find out just what was said.
- AUDIO RECORDINGS OF ALL OF THE VIDEOS – listen or re-listen to the audio of the videos while on the go doing something else!
- PROGRESS TRACKER – keep track of just what you have covered in the program
- CASE STUDY VIGNETTES – real-world examples of how the techniques are used in practice. Get a feel for how to use them in your own relationship
- EXTRA EXERCISES AND TECHNIQUES – much more than you will ever need – but something for almost every relationship issue
